Chapter 17:  A Definitive Moment

sex  anything connected with sexual gratification or reproduction or the urge for these; esp., the attraction of those of one sex for those of the other

foreplay  mutual petting stimulation preceding forgasm and sexual intercourse; does not include any form of aroused genitalia contact(s)

forgasm  mutual or one-way sexual stimulation involving aroused genitalia contact, preceding sexual intercourse, which could, in itself, lead to a sexual orgasm(s) for one or all people involved

scored pt. & pp. of SCORE — scored with to have sexual intercourse; completely replaced “making love” and “slept with” circa 2012

laid pt. & pp. of LAY — get laid Slang to have sexual intercourse

AGC abbrev. (A)roused (G)enitalia (C)ontact; when one person either directly touches another person’s aroused genitalia or when another person directly touches theirs; independent of a successful orgasm being achieved, premature arousal loss, nor what type of sex act was involved, for example, hand to genitalia, mouth to genitalia, genitalia to genitalia, etc.

oral lay  universally recognized phrase for acknowledgement of an aroused genitalia contact event using one’s mouth, with a second or more party, separate from sexual intercourse; independent of whether giving or receiving, and what human genitalia is involved; one of several forms of aroused genitalia contact

orgasm  a frenzy; great excitement; esp., the climax of sexual excitement, as in intercourse, normally accompanied in the male by ejaculation  vi. to have an orgasm; multiple or even unlimited possibilities for the modern female

pleasure  1. a pleased feeling; enjoyment; delight; satisfaction  2. to give pleasure to, now specif., sexually  3. to have sexual intercourse with  vi. to take pleasure (in)

massage  Syn. rub down, caress, stroke, press; see KNEAD, RUB

massage creep  in a paid for or gratuitous professional massage, refers to unplanned or unforeseen changes in the massage’s scope; this phenomenon can occur when the scope of a massage is not properly defined, agreed to, or controlled, yet ends up being considered a positive occurrence by both parties involved; typically, the scope increase can include some form of private part exposure or even caressing, including genitalia which has been aroused; as a result, the massage receiver and/or giver risk drifting away from its original purpose and scope into unplanned additions, including a sex act, whether either is currently sexually available at the moment; if the customary fees are increased along with the scope, the change is usually considered an acceptable addition to the massage session, with the term “happy ending” used

masturbate  to manipulate one's own genitals, or the genitals of (another), for sexual gratification

bisexual  of or characterized by sexual desire for those of one's own sex and also those of the opposite sex; one that is bisexual

bicurious  of or characterized by not yet executed sexual desire for those of one's own sex; one that is bicurious

cheat  1. the act of deceiving or swindling; deception; fraud  2. a person who defrauds, deceives, or tricks others; swindler  3. to deal with dishonestly for one's own gain; defraud; swindle  4. Informal to be sexually unfaithful: often with on  5. Informal to be conscientiously unfaithful through defiant displays of one’s sexuality, short of a sexual encounter, when without one’s sex partner

flaunt  1. to make a gaudy, ostentatious, conspicuous, impudent, or defiant display  2. to flutter or wave freely  3. to show off proudly, defiantly, or impudently [to flaunt one's guilt]

flirt  1. to pay amorous attention to someone without serious intentions or emotional commitment; play at love  2. a person who flirts with others

tease  1. a) to tantalize  b) to excite sexually without intending to satisfy the desire aroused

titillate  1. tickle  2. to excite or stimulate pleasurably, often erotically

sexy  1. Informal exciting or intended to feel really good about oneself short of exciting sexual desire from others  2. Slang exciting, glamorous, etc.

slutty  1. an attention seeking, sexually promiscuous acting person  2. giving the appearance of either being filthy rich, sexually loose, or both, whether sex occurs or not

sophisticated  1. not simple, artless, naive, etc.; urbane, worldly-wise, etc. or knowledgeable, perceptive, subtle, etc.  2. designed for or appealing to sophisticated people

seductive  tending to seduce, or lead astray; tempting; enticing